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WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE FAITHFUL?

1. Loving your spouse in public and in private


2. Cutting off an ex who is coming to confuse you or disrespect your spouse 


3. Not participating in sexual jokes at the work place that lead to blurred lines


4. Sexting only your spouse and if your spouse is not much of a texter, choosing not to use that as an excuse to send suggestive messages to another 


5. Avoiding to call other people of the opposite gender suggestive names that belong only to your spouse such as "Sweetheart", "Love", "Darling", "Baby"


6. Surrounding yourself with friends who encourage you to be faithful to your spouse and who can tell you off when you start to veer off


7. Looking away when you notice your eyes are desiring another person sexually. Do not feed lust 


8. Choosing not to take care of another person of the opposite gender financially in secret yet neglecting your spouse 


9. Telling off people who come at you to make sexual advances 


10. Making it known that you are married lest anyone thinks you are available 


11. Ignoring or blocking people who still want to flirt with you yet they know you are married 


12. Avoiding your body rubbing on another at the workplace, supermarket or social gatherings; this excitement leads to more longing for body rubbing


13. Bragging about your spouse to someone who is lying to you that they will treat you better than your spouse


14. Stopping the excitement of dressing up sexy to get the attention of a work colleague. This expectation of impressing a special someone will lead to an affair and distract you from impressing your spouse 


15. Avoiding habits such as drinking and excessive parting and activities that tempt you and put you in a compromising situations


16. Unfriending a friend who doesn't respect boundaries


17. Honouring your spouse even when your spouse doesn't know what you are doing or is far from you 


18. Avoiding pornography and masturbating to videos and photos online since this will train your eye to lust after multiple people 


19. Choosing not to send nude photos of yourself to someone who is not your spouse 


20. Choosing not to receive nude photos or videos of people who are trying to seduce you


21. Avoiding phone sex with someone not your spouse. If you phone sex or video call another to talk sexual stuff, your desire for that person will grow 


22. Choosing not to have lengthy intimate chats with another person not your spouse 


23. Choosing not to confide in another your naughty thoughts and sexual fantasies. These secrets belong only to your spouse


24. Choosing not to hold, caress, tightly hug, sensually massage or cuddle up a friend in the name of comfort. Physical intimacy belongs only to your spouse 


25. Avoiding naughty games such as strip poker, truth or dare or kissing games that might cheer you into dishonouring your spouse 


26. Avoiding the lie that you can make out with another person as long as you don't sleep with them


27. Choosing not to give another person more time and attention than you give to your spouse 


Faithfulness is not only about not having sexual intercourse with another; but also about honouring your spouse with your mind, eyes, ears, words, feelings, time, hands and body.


Choose to be faithful

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